
It (all) started with a cryptic post with Black Coffee asserting that he was not okay. He then followed this message with a thread dedicated to what he wishes men could find in 2023. Instead of cars, money and women, Black Coffee asked that men practise internal self-love and pursue healing their own emotional traumas.
The responses to the post were overwhelming, as men showcased just why Black Coffee is wishing for men to confront their emotions. A fact which highlights the often overlooked matter of men and how they are taught to be “strong and dependable.”
In response, Black Coffee then shared how the events of the past two years have not only shaped his perspective on life currently. But he shared how the abuse allegations by his ex-wife forced him to confront his own childhood traumas as he too had an abusive father.
“The day my ex accused me of physically harming her,nothing was the same. It has left a heavy void in my heart a void I can’t shake off.I lost a big part of myself, no court of law could ever fix the pain and shame I still carry today.”
Where did Enhle mention Black Coffee?
His guilty conscience eating him up lol pic.twitter.com/yra3KZlRca
— Staarmanii (@staarmanii) December 29, 2022
We believe Enhle Mbali 💜 pic.twitter.com/0lq5IE5TBi
— Women For Change (@womenforchange5) December 29, 2022
Black coffee can’t have 2 children outside Marriage and expect Enhle to be normal no ways. He must be a man for once and come out with the truth and apologize first if he wants us to feel sorry for him.. he’s never a victim
— Katlego (@g4swater) December 29, 2022
We love you ENHLE MBALI MLOTSHWA and there is nothing wrong with your IG post, that you posted on December 10 but triggers a sfebe sa narcissist on December 29…you doing good sweet @Enhle_Cares pic.twitter.com/s2BVPtuckf
— Lionel Andrès Messi (@ThaaBLaa) December 29, 2022
For Enhle Mbali not to dignify any of this with a response 🕯️ pic.twitter.com/7m7QbBbSFC
— FIGHTER LADY M³💜 (@MapulaMokgosang) December 29, 2022
I appreciate your tweets and respect all your opinions however I didn’t tweet so you can “believe me”.
I needed to get this off my chest and I need her to stop making me the face of her GBV campaigns…I’m not the one.— Black Coffee (@RealBlackCoffee) December 29, 2022