Sarah Langa has offered her advice on a topic many women today are interested in; bagging a rich spouse or blesser
Whilst never having to pay the bills again seems like the obvious one, there is a downside to marrying a powerful and influential man, warns Sarah.
It all started when the YouTuber reacted to a tweet about women who have to split bills with men as well as balance the many roles of being the fairer sex.
“So most women [are] having to do double/triple the work… imagine splitting bills, cleaning, cooking, having multiple jobs, popping out kids, raising kids, still look after our mothers. YOH!” she tweeted.
The conversation took a more serious turn when Sarah advised women looking for rich hubbies not to get caught up in the material aspect of being a trophy wife, only to be abused – whether physically, mentally, emotionally, sexually or even financially – at the hands of their significant others.
She continued; “I hope while y’all ladies are fixated on this “pay the bill” topic you don’t forget the most important thing is to protect your space….You can pray for a bill-paying-MAN but he could ruin you in ways you’ve never imagined.
“Be woke, know what the following things mean: sexual abuse, financial abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse. …There’s no amount of money that will ever be able to settle THAT BILL in your life.”
She then issued a message to the gents – not to use their wealth and status to take advantage or overpower women.
Sarah added; “Men: STOP USING money & access to opportunity as a tool to emotionally, sexually & physically abuse women…If you wanna take responsibility for a woman, do it with no expectations.”
Thank you Sarah for encouraging women to know their worth!
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